Body Love... it's an art you can develop!
While the world is in chaos it's even more important than usual to practice some BODY LOVE.
We're shown daily how very precious our normal life really is. And instead of worrying about what we're missing most of us are appreciating how lucky we are to be safe with a roof over our heads, food to eat and fresh air to breathe.
Life is for living, no more waiting to lose weight, get your teeth fixed or afford a new wardrobe.
Decide to practice some body love TODAY because life is getting back to normal!
Try some positive thinking, a little exercise or just feeding yourself better - you can't go forward offering love to others until you can love and take good care of yourself.
When you feel good about the person you are and the body you're living in then positive things will come again.
Body Love takes energy and good health...
You need to be fit and well in your body as well as your attitude of mind. Looking after yourself requires you...
- to maintain your body with good nutrition
- your body gets plenty of rest and sleep
- you get a modicum of exercise and fresh air
- if you're worried about health issues get yourself checked - you can put your mind at rest or accept help
Then you're ready to move forward in a positive direction.
Facing the world with Body Love needs a plan...
And now that you've decided to treat your body with LOVE it's time to take a step forward.
feeling quite as brave as you'd like to be? You may think you're the
only one, but most people have feelings of insecurity at times. Adopt a few techniques so that you appear more outwardly in control of any
situation even if, initially, you're not feeling it inside. You'll
discover how to boost your confidence in other ways too as you develop
more trust and respect in yourself.
Smile! It could make you happy!
1 What makes you feel good?
image in women is often linked with how we look! OK, that may sound
flippant - but when you look good you do feel good. Decide how to
boost your confidence today and what it is that helps you to feel good
about yourself. Do you like your hair to look good, do you like to feel
that your makeup is right, is it something to do with being smart or
casual? Do you like to wear color or feel safe in black? Whatever it is,
to you so play up to it, make yourself feel as good as you can. This is
an important day!!
Whatever it is that makes you feel good - make it easier! Clean out
your makeup bag so you're prepared for the day. OK your hair is clean but decide to get a good cut as soon as you can. Do your nails need attention -
clean and neat will do - but if you like polish, then today's the day!
2 Hold your head high
tall and purposefully, you don't need to rush! Stand up straight and
face the world head on. Don't look down when you're walking and don't
slouch - you will immediately look and feel taller. You'll also look as
though you're completely in control.
is something that's easily improved with practice both walking and
sitting. Holding your chin up high makes you appear determined and
Start Today: Sitting
down now? Pull yourself up and straighten your back - you'll feel the
difference instantly and others will notice the difference.
of us walk by transferring our weight from one hip to the other. Hold
your head high with a straight back and you'll walk straighter coming up
on your hips rather than slouching from side to side.
3 Face the world with a Smile!
is no substitute for a bright smile. If you've ever been out for a walk
with a dog
or a baby - everyone smiles at you and says hello very easily. It’s a
great feeling! If that doesn’t happen when you’re alone,
why don’t you be the one who makes it happen?
Start Today: How to boost your confidence quickly today? Decide
that you will hold your head up and smile at the first three people you
meet and say Hi or Good Morning! The smile you receive back
will be well worth the effort. If you don't have a confident smile and
then make a dental appointment. An attractive smile will have a strong
positive effect on your self esteem.
4 Adopt a positive attitude
Decide that you are
going to develop the attitude and positive body image you want and begin to concentrate only on positive
things around you. Your cup can be half full just
as easily as half empty. Start to look
for the good in others and ignore the things that annoy you.
Start Today: Body
image in women can be greatly affected by small actions. So today find
something good to say to others. Start by offering a compliment to
someone else; praise someone’s efforts however small; appreciate
a small kindness; see how much pleasure you can give to others and
you'll be surprised how good that makes you feel!
5 Look people in the eye
probably in contact with lots of people every day, at the store or the
garage, and never think about how you behave. In a different situation
though you might feel more in the spotlight and consequently nervous. If
you look people in the eye and speak slowly you will look and sound
Start Today: Try
it with the waitress when you're having a coffee, or at the filling
station - look them in the eye and smile as you say thank you. You'll be
pleased to see their response and you'll feel better in yourself.
6 Don't let anyone put you down
you're lucky enough to have been praised continually
as a child you have grown up with a good helping of self esteem. However, life sometimes
throws us a curved ball and things aren't always perfect. If people put you down, be aware that only weak and
insecure people behave in that way as they need to feel in control. You don't need people like that around you. A confident
person may offer advice but would never belittle you.
Start Today: Surround yourself with only positive people. If you encounter negatives, you don't have to accept them, say thank you and turn
away. You will happily discover how to boost your confidence by mixing and interacting with positive and genuine people.
7 Make new resolutions
a promise to
yourself that you will establish new routines and pamper yourself more.
Trust yourself to carry the actions through and believe in yourself as you learn how to boost your confidence.
'This is the first day of the rest of your life'!
I've had to say that to myself so many times over the years. It doesn't
have to be New Year, the first day of the month or even the first day
of the week. You can begin anew at any time. Start today, and by
tomorrow you'll have accomplished something!
Start Today: if you haven’t already started on your Makeover journey, why not start by looking at the questions at What's My Style and start to plan your way forward.
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