Do you sometimes feel a little self-conscious about your upper arms or feel your arms look thicker than you’d like?
You’re far from alone. As we get older, the upper arms often become softer, even when our weight hasn’t changed very much. Muscle tone shifts, skin changes, and fat can settle differently over time. It’s completely natural. And it isn’t a “problem” unless it bothers you.
This is simply about dressing in a way that helps you feel cool, elegant and confident.
Some women are perfectly happy to bare their arms at any age. Others feel better with a little softness or coverage. Both are absolutely fine.
If you don’t feel comfortable showing your upper arms, you do not have to hide away in heavy clothes or avoid sleeveless styles altogether. A few simple styling ideas can make a surprising difference.
The secret is not to “cover up” so much as to create balance. We want to avoid drawing attention to the roundest part of the arm and instead create a longer, slimmer line through the shoulder and upper body.
The most flattering styles are usually the ones that give a little definition at the shoulder and skim gently over the arm rather than clinging to it.
These are especially helpful...
Some styles can unintentionally make fuller upper arms look more pronounced.
Try to be cautious with:
In general, anything too clingy, too tight or too flimsy tends to be less flattering than fabrics with a little weight and shape.
I've found that just an extended shoulder line will disguise fullness in and around the sleeve opening. And checkout how I coped with my favorite jumpsuit at the bottom of the page!
But if you would like a little more coverage without feeling hidden, here are some elegant options...
Sometimes you don’t need a whole new outfit. A small alteration can make all the difference.
My navy and white jumpsuit is one of my favourite pieces for holidays and special occasions, but I did feel a little exposed around the arms.
Fortunately, it had a very long sash. So I cut some of it off and wrapped it around the armholes to extend the shoulder line slightly. It was just enough to soften the look of my upper arms and create a more flattering silhouette.
A dressmaker would no doubt have made a neater job, but it worked - and, more importantly, I now enjoy wearing it much more.
That is often the real secret. Not hiding yourself away, and not worrying about so-called flaws, but making a few thoughtful style choices so you can feel like the very best version of yourself.
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